The Distorted Lens of Control and Harm

Educate: IPV

  1. German: Gewalt in intimen Partnerschaften
  2. Dutch: Geweld in intieme relaties
  3. French: Violence entre partenaires intimes
  4. Spanish: Violencia de pareja íntima
  5. Russian: Насилие со стороны интимного партнёра (Nasiliye so storony intimnogo partnyora)
  6. Portuguese: Violência entre parceiros íntimos
  7. Hindi: अंतरंग साथी की हिंसा (Antarang sāthī kī hinsā)
  8. Korean: 친밀한 파트너 간의 폭력 (Chinmilhan pateuneo gan-ui pokryeok)
  9. Arabic: العنف بين الشريكين الحميمين (Al-ʿunf bayna al-sharikayn al-ḥamīmīn)
  10. Japanese: 親密なパートナー間の暴力 (Shinmitsu na pātonā-kan no bōryoku)

Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) is a violation of human rights that involves abusive tactics such as psychological/emotional, physical, economic, and sexual abuse, often used to dominate, control, and manipulate an intimate partner.

Contemplate the prevalence of IPV in the US and around the World:

  1. In the USA
    1. Statistic: IPV impacts over one of four women in the United States.
      Impact: This highlights the widespread prevalence of IPV in the U.S. and its significant public health and human rights implications.
    2. Statistic: Separated women experienced violence at seven times the rate of married women in the year prior to the study.
      Impact: Separation, while intended to end abuse, often escalates the risk and frequency of IPV, emphasizing that leaving a relationship does not guarantee safety (Li 2023).
  2. Global View: IPV study from Germany:
    1. A total of 57% of female participants and 50% of male participants have reported victimization by intimate partners during their lifespan in Germany.
    2. Psychological IPV was the most prevalent subtype, reported by 53% of females and 48% of males. (Jud, A., et. al., 2022).

Initiate actions and Pause and Reflect on your awareness and ability to support people facing IPV:

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  1. Support women seeking separation: Acknowledge that separation, while a defiance of abuser control, can escalate violence. Provide enhanced support and safety planning for women during and after separation.
  2. Prioritize nonphysical abuse: Recognize that post-separation IPV often shifts from physical violence to nonphysical forms like verbal abuse, using children, stalking, and economic abuse. Interventions should be adapted to address these prevalent tactics.
  3. Support women seeking separation: Acknowledge that separation, while a defiance of abuser control, can escalate violence. Provide enhanced support and safety planning for women during and after separation.
  4. Address the “using children” tactic: Develop specific strategies and resources to counteract abusers’ use of children, custody arrangements, and visitation times as tools for ongoing control and abuse.
  5. Increase awareness of post-separation stalking: Educate women and support systems about the increased risk and prevalence of stalking after separation, and implement effective anti-stalking measures.
  6. Focus on economic abuse interventions: Provide robust support and resources for women experiencing economic abuse both pre- and post-separation, as this form of control persists and can escalate.
  7. Educate legal and court officials: Advocate for training for criminal justice and family court personnel (judges, mediators, attorneys) to understand the nuances of IPV, especially nonphysical and post-separation tactics, and to prioritize victim and child safety in custody decisions.
  8. Promote feminist perspectives in intervention: Incorporate feminist theories that emphasize patriarchal control and power imbalances into intervention programs, helping to understand the root causes and persistence of IPV.
  9. Develop programs for abusers: Implement programs that teach abusers to recognize and manage their aggression, aiming to prevent both physical and verbal confrontations, as well as other controlling behaviors.
  10. Improve data collection on sexual abuse: Recognize the potential underreporting of sexual abuse due to social desirability bias and explore methods to encourage more open disclosure in research and support settings.
  11. Enhance inter-agency collaboration: Encourage collaboration between healthcare services, advocacy-based victim assistance, school officials, and courts to provide comprehensive and coordinated support for women and children experiencing IPV across all stages of separation.

References:

Li CKW. A qualitative study on how intimate partner violence against women changes, escalates, and persists from pre- to postseparation. Fam Process. 2024 Sep;63(3):1446-1468. doi: 10.1111/famp.12923. Epub 2023 Aug 13. PMID: 37574256.

Jud, A., Grafe, B., Meshkova, K., Kavemann, B., Meysen, T., Hoffmann, U., Ziegenhain, U., & Fegert, J. (2022). Prevalence and Predictors of Affirmations of Intimate Partner Violence in Germany: A First Nationwide Study on Victimization in Women and Men. Journal of Interpersonal Violence38(1-2), 1473-

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